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Edit 27/12/15: The colours were...wierd so I updated them.

Requested a long time ago.

Demisexuality:
"A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone." - Asexuality.org

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:iconsanslet0n:
Sanslet0n Featured By Owner Edited 2 hours ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
This label does describe me, but does this really count as a sexuality? I feel like this is more of a preference but I'm not too sure.
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:iconhans-litten-x3:
Hans-Litten-X3 Featured By Owner May 10, 2017   General Artist
There are so many sexualities that I don't even know which I am.
Bisexual is a safe bet.
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:iconcloudkittenn:
CloudKittenn Featured By Owner May 5, 2017  New Deviant
am using <3
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:iconsinning-is-win:
sinning-is-win Featured By Owner Apr 8, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Using <3
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:iconkana-the-drifter:
Kana-The-Drifter Featured By Owner Dec 14, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Using <3
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:icontimothy-andy-larson:
TIMOTHY-ANDY-LARSON Featured By Owner Dec 11, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I am using this just so you know.
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:iconanna-jacqueline:
Anna-Jacqueline Featured By Owner Oct 18, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Can you be straight and demi?
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:iconpastelacids:
PastelAcids Featured By Owner Oct 20, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You can be! People call that being heteroromantic demisexual or the other way round, demiromantic heterosexual 
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:icondangan-nep-wheels:
Dangan-Nep-Wheels Featured By Owner Edited Oct 25, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I was just about to ask that! xD
Jeez...I thought I couldn't be a straight and a demi.. but now that you said that, I feel happy that I can ^^
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:iconchaoticmindelectric:
ChaoticMindElectric Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2016  Student Digital Artist
can you explain what demisexual feels like? im still questioning a little and need an answer from someone who is demi
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:iconpreator-skittles:
Preator-Skittles Featured By Owner Edited Sep 17, 2016  Hobbyist Artist
ok yeah i can i think

im demisexual and its a little hard to explain

so being demisexual is like you dont randomly feel attracted to someone, (Ex. if you see someone VERY attractive on the street, you wont be attracted to them like a possibly normal person would.) you have to be close to them.

(Ex. i started feeling attracted to one of my friends because i was close to them and i trusted them with myself.)
true story btw

as i said it's really had to explain so i apologize if i just confused you further ^^ ;
and i hope you find your sexuality soon


and i can help you if you want to find your sexuality sooner if you describe to me how you feel about others ^^
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:iconflippytiger:
flippytiger Featured By Owner Dec 8, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
same for me as well! I only discovered the term demisexual today. Learning new things about myself. :)
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:iconchaoticmindelectric:
ChaoticMindElectric Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2016  Student Digital Artist
thank you so much for clearing that up!!! :3
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:iconpreator-skittles:
Preator-Skittles Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2016  Hobbyist Artist
np ^^
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:iconlolami14:
lolami14 Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2016  Student General Artist
using
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:iconqretty:
qretty Featured By Owner Edited Jul 22, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I have a question.. What do I fit as more?

I am a straight girl. But, I'm not crazy about boys like my friends.
Meaning, I don't like literally every boy I see who is cute. It doesn't mean I want to start a relationship (meaning love relationship).
I need to get to the person more, whom I feel a connection with. Someone who can understand me as I understand them for me to take it to the next level.

Is this more Demi-straight, just straight, or is this something different?

I am only attracted to males. Not transgenders. Only natural born males.

PLEASE RESPOND AND HELP, ANYONE!
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PrinceOfQueer Featured By Owner Feb 16, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
don't say "transgenders" please, and trans boys are boys too. Just say "I like men", you don't need to "clarify" anything, because it wouldn't change your orientation if you liked a trans guy since they're the same gender as cis guys. :I
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:icondansonic15:
DanSonic15 Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I think she meant girls who pose as guys, not boys who pose as girls.
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PrinceOfQueer Featured By Owner Feb 27, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
...You mean trans guys, I'm assuming you mean ""ftm"" (outdated terminology) trans guys? 
Trans guys are the same gender as cis guys. Trans girls are the same gender as cis girls. It's simple really, it's in the same, "guys" and "girls".
And for "boys who """pose""" as girls" you mean trans girls? Trans girls are girls, not "boys who pose as girls".

"pose as" fuck off, they're not "posing" as anything. They ARE boys/girls.
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:iconthe-plush-prince:
The-Plush-Prince Featured By Owner Jul 22, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You might be a heteroromantic gray-asexual or demi-heterosexual! owo)/
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:iconqretty:
qretty Featured By Owner Edited Jul 22, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I sound like both sorta xD
I haven't found any sexual attraction between guys tho... Does that make me asexual lmao ?? I'm still young tho so I believe that's why.
But I'm researching more and I think I seem more like a Demi-heterosexual... Thanks sm!! ❤️
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:iconthe-plush-prince:
The-Plush-Prince Featured By Owner Jul 22, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
No problem!
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shinobifuzzy Featured By Owner Jun 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
using ;w;
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:iconbrihanna25:
brihanna25 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2016
....isn't that basically just a preference?

What I'm getting from this is that you're a person who has enough dignity to not just hand their body out to anyone and sleep around (Which by the way a lot and/or some people are like that) and someone thought that making a sexuality out of this made sense??
couldn't it just mean just that you don't want to be a slut?
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:iconglovannas:
glovannas Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2016  Student Digital Artist
nope, but it can be a preference depending on the person.
then again, any sexuality/romantic orientation can be a preference:
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:iconariagrill:
AriaGrill Featured By Owner Jul 8, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
its just another label, so yeah
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:iconglovannas:
glovannas Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2016  Student Digital Artist
no.
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:iconariagrill:
AriaGrill Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
10/10, best argument ever
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:iconanna-jacqueline:
Anna-Jacqueline Featured By Owner Oct 20, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Bahahha yeahhh
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:icontrashsempai:
Trashsempai Featured By Owner Jun 25, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
nope, basically it's like playing those dating simulator games where you have to get to a certain relationship level before you can date the character :3
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:iconbrihanna25:
brihanna25 Featured By Owner Edited Jun 25, 2016
That just sounds like a perfect start to any and or every relationship to me.only they didn't call it a sexuality.
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:icontrashsempai:
Trashsempai Featured By Owner Jun 25, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
okay yeah thats true perfect relationship BUT no thats not how demisexuality works okay, so I am not sexually attracted to you at all or anyone, I have no desire to screw you or anyone at all that is a stranger nor will I because I just don't work that way. My brain doesn't release the sex hormones for some fucking reason or another. But when I start to experience the desire for sexual interaction with you is when I have developed an emotional bond, like I'm more sexually attracted to who you are as a person, and funny thing is, some of your friends will randomly seem like hot af and wow lets get frisky, but then its kinda like when you were 13 and you had that weird sex dream about a total stranger and suddenly everything seems weird but its not, it's just you had a dream about that person, so your like wtf no stop and sometimes it goes away even, but thats the thing about demis, we can develope it out of the blue once we know you super well. It's legit I swear, like I don't masturbate or anything, some masturbate for stress or whatever but idk just not my thing I don't feel any sexual desire at all unless I know the person super super well, like i can appreciate good looking people, but its like looking at flowers, I dont wanna try fucking the flowers why would you do that sorta thing, cause I don't experience that feeling without the relationship, one night stands are never a thing with Demi's because dude we are considered like grey-ace more than anything. The dating sim is the closest thing I have to comparing it to anything, you have to build a relationship before you can screw the simulator girl, I'm really trying to explain this best I can so you understand it. ><
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:iconsilk-fur:
silk-fur Featured By Owner Jun 29, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Someone (you) fucking get it!
God I hate when people just can't accept or wrap their brain around it.
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:icontrashsempai:
Trashsempai Featured By Owner Jun 29, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Well I am Demi myself :3 so yeah of course I get it but yeah :/ It's rare to find people who accept it so when someone does get it it's so relieving, I'm glad I could help you feel that :3 My mom is one of very few I know who understands and accepts it man and I hope you find more people like that :3
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:iconsilk-fur:
silk-fur Featured By Owner Jul 3, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
That's awesome! Sometimes I feel so alone, but I have one friend, who understands.
She's an asexual. Also, thank you so so so much for the watch!
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:icontrashsempai:
Trashsempai Featured By Owner Jul 3, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You ain't alone love :3 you got a whole community and absolutely chi precious X3
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:iconbrihanna25:
brihanna25 Featured By Owner Edited Jun 26, 2016
I'm not good at explaining things myself,so I can understand.

this sounds like how a relationship starts off before it gets "serious" or this is a deep frienship/companionship thats had it trusts,ups and downs,and understanding,to the point where you guys deeply care about each other and that their just MIGHT be a romantic/sexual aspect going on because of it.

So when I look up the definition of this sexuality I just see a regular person who is responsible enough to get to know a person in the starting or beginning of a newly formed relationship and not just hand out her body to anyone he/she barely knows.

And this does sound like a nice thought.
But this description would probably fit most if not some of the human race.
So I to be honest I can't see this as a sexuality and I'm sorry if that's mean,but I just can't. :/

This sounds like a preference to me because
The definition says"it's a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone." When I see this I see a person who "prefers"to actually get to know someone and doesn't care about looks or anything like that,you care about someone on the inside and as you get to know them you start to realize who they really are and that's what attracts you to them romantically over time,instead of passing judgement or thinking lewd things about them.
But this could fit just about anyone depending on the age and or experiences.

So Im sorry but I just can't see this as a sexuality.this just sounds like one big preference to me.
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beckels89 Featured By Owner Jun 21, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
nnoooooo not at all............ its  that youre asexual completely  until u find someone ur close with.. like how non ace spectrum ppl still have sexual feelings and want to have sex while demisexual / asexual people dont at all
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:iconbrihanna25:
brihanna25 Featured By Owner Edited Jun 22, 2016
so basically most of the human population.

What I got from demisexuality is that you're a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.
literally anyone and/or everyone of the human race can fit this labeling.
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:iconbeckels89:
beckels89 Featured By Owner Jun 22, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
not tru thanks 4 trying tho
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:iconbrihanna25:
brihanna25 Featured By Owner Jun 22, 2016
Hard to believe  ¯(ツ)_/¯
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:iconsunbirds:
sunbirds Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2016
tbf i do think the same, its a wierd label considering most of the human population would probably fit to this.
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:iconchirafu:
chirafu Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2016
Ahaa you killed me xD
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:iconpenls666:
penls666 Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yeah pretty much preference
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:iconxenchiiru:
Xenchiiru Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2016  Professional Digital Artist
no
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:iconsniil:
sniil Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
using!
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:iconshunokii:
shunokii Featured By Owner May 2, 2016  Professional General Artist
i dont get it.. isnt that just like a normal healthy relationship?? i always thought someone had to have a strong emotional connection with someone before feeling sexual attraction
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:iconpenls666:
penls666 Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
it is, tumblr just decided to turn that into a sexuality
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:iconshunokii:
shunokii Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2016  Professional General Artist
thought so.

lol how lame.
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:iconpenls666:
penls666 Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
ikr
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